Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Molly Stillman | Speaker, Author, Loud Laugher
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Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world.
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#387 ON LIFE AND COMEDY WITH COMEDIAN DUSTIN NICKERSON
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My guest this week is the hilarious Dustin Nickerson, a comedian from Seattle now suffering in Southern California. In 2020 he released his debut comedy special Overwhelmed, which is currently one of the highest-rated specials on Amazon Prime.
His humor has graced the screens of Comedy Central, Netflix with Kevin Hart, The Late Late Show with James Corden, Fox, and Hulu, and his stand-up clips have garnered tens of millions of views. Dustin is also the author of How To Be Married To Melissa and co-host of the podcast Don’t Make Me Come Back There.
If you want to laugh today, this is the episode for you! I have been a long-time fan of Dustin’s work and I’m so excited to have him on the show today to share his perspective on life, marriage, comedy, and more. You’re going to love this one!
12:07 – Dustin 101, Toby Keith, and Bojangles
Dustin’s Twitter bio
Molly’s first date at a Toby Keith concert
Bojangles Biscuits
Dustin’s fan base
21:46 – Set Bedtimes and Mouthguards
Adult parties need bedtimes
Middle-aged friendships
The beauty of marriage
27:40 – If I Don’t Laugh, I’ll Cry
Dustin and Melissa’s viral video
Dustin’s relatable humor
Evolving as a comedian
33:44 – Finding Your Funny
Authenticity in creativity
Bombing in stand-up
Understanding your audience
41:41 – The Solider Dog, The Late Late Show and Dustin’s Book
Dustin’s memorable career moments
The dedication behind success
Connecting with Dustin
FEATURED QUOTES
"The only way to get good at stand-up comedy is to do stand-up comedy."
“No comedian is beloved by everybody. You're not trying to get everyone to love you. You're trying to get the people that do love you, or will love your stuff, to find you.”
Learn more about Dustin:
Dustin on Tour:
https://www.dustinnickerson.com/
Dustin’s Comedy Specials:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCs2QQYow6VX9nDpDwCspiqQ
Dustin on social media:
https://www.facebook.com/dustinnickersoncomedy
https://www.instagram.com/dustinnickerson/?hl=en
https://twitter.com/DustinNickerson
How To Be Married To Melissa:
https://www.thomasnelson.com/p/how-to-be-married-to-melissa/
Don’t Make Me Come Back There Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-make-me-come-back-there-with-dustin-melissa-nickerson/id1434215707?mt=2
Melissa’s Target Outfit Video:
https://www.tiktok.com/@dustinnickersoncomedy/video/7327676165953457451
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world. -
#386 How to Build Lasting Wealth with Personal Finance Expert Bola Sokunbi
We have such an incredible guest joining us for today’s show! Bola Sokunbi is a certified financial instructor (CFEI), money expert, speaker, and founder of Clever Girl Finance, one of the largest personal finance media platforms for women in the U.S.
Bola received the 2021 Financial Education Instructor of the Year Award from the National Council of Financial Educators and is a 4x best-selling author of the Clever Finance Series and her book, Choosing To Prosper. She is passionate about helping women take control of their money stories and live life on their terms.
Bola has such amazing things to say about breaking free from a limiting money mindset, being intentional, and giving yourself grace along your financial journey. I could not be more excited to have her back on the show with us today to share her story and wisdom with all of you!
4:49 – Bola 201
Bola’s life as a business owner, mom, and wife Releasing 4 books Bola’s career journey and mission Pursuing her business on her own terms 22:35 – Embracing Imperfections in Money Management
“Low dough March” Tips for curbing impulsive spending Embracing imperfections and finding solutions that work for you 40:57 – The Wealth Paradox
The cultural attitude towards money Wealthy individuals being idolized and demonized Common misconceptions about wealth Money as a tool 51:24 – Final Takeaways
Breaking free from a limiting money mindset Learning from others, being intentional, and open-minded to opportunities Changing dynamics in the financial planning industry Connecting with Bola FEATURED QUOTES
“I had an idea that I wanted to build a business that would help women- that would empower women to not feel any shame or any judgment about their finances.”
“Automation is a tool that can help you save and help you get out of debt faster, that can help you invest more. Leverage the tools and resources that can help you help yourself.”
“Give yourself that grace. We’re all making money mistakes.”
“Money is not anything. It's a tool. It doesn't make you good, it doesn't make you evil, it doesn't make you kind, it doesn't make you hideous… it… amplifies who you are. If you're a good person, you're a great person with money. If you're an evil person, you're a worse person with money. It’s a tool.”
Learn more about Bola:
https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/
Clever Girl Finance Book Series
https://www.amazon.com/stores/Bola-Sokunbi/author/B076GP7FS3
Bola’s book, Choosing To Prosper
https://www.amazon.com/Choosing-Prosper-Triumphing-Adversity-Achieving-ebook/dp/B0B4V644NT
The Clever Girls Know Podcast
https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/podcast/
Clever Girl Finance on social media
https://www.instagram.com/clevergirlfinance/
https://www.youtube.com/clevergirlfinance
https://www.facebook.com/clevergirlfinance/
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and author, Molly Stillman, her mission is to make you laugh, cry, and laugh till you cry. She wants to create a community of people who are unafraid to be themselves and have honest conversations about the things that matter most. Her vision is to create a safe space for people to explore their faith and share their stories and gifts with the world. -
You are a Tree with Joy Marie Clarkson | EP: 385
I am so incredibly excited to sit down with Joy Clarkson in this week’s episode. Joy wears many hats - from being a research associate in theology and literature at King’s College London to serving as the Books and Culture Editor for Plough Quarterly.
Completing her Ph.D. in theology at the University of Saint Andrews, she's also the face behind the popular podcast Speaking with Joy and the author of several books, including her latest release, You Are a Tree, which we chat about today.
This conversation was so rich, and it was such a delight to unpack some of the powerful metaphors found in scripture together. I hope you join us as we learn more about the inspiration behind Joy’s new book and talk about how God uses imagery and nature to help us better understand ourselves, our relationships, and the mysteries of life.
7:06 – Joy 101
Living in Scottland and teaching theology in London Joy’s books and podcast Joy’s love for tea, music, and baking 13:03 – The Origin Story for Joy’s book
Frequently relocating as a child Joy’s lifelong connection with trees Living in one place for 27 months Exploring trees in Scripture 18:50 – Nature’s Lessons
The profound metaphors found in nature God’s intentional creation The 7 metaphors explored in Joy’s book 26:44 – Metaphors of Mystery
God’s intentional design woven into creation Embracing childlike wonder to see God’s presence and intentionality Using metaphors as tools to describe the mysterious aspects of creation 40:59 – Final Takeaways
Unpacking “love is a disease” The metaphors of trees and travel Connecting with Joy FEATURED QUOTES
“Scripture itself… it's not just a rulebook…doesn't give us a bunch of abstract, philosophical truths about God- it draws on our experiences of the natural world, and our experiences of light and height and depth, to help us understand ourselves and our relationship with God.”
“I think metaphors kind of keep us open to the many facets of things and the mystery of being alive.”
“We are created to belong in this world, and to have a relationship [with] it and to find meaning in it.”
“To be in the world and to flourish we do need to have roots, we do need to be like a tree and stay in one place. But even the best tree human life is still a temporary life and we still have this sense of belonging for a home that isn't here."
Learn more about Joy:
https://joyclarkson.substack.com/about
Check out You Are a Tree:
https://www.amazon.com/You-Are-Tree-Metaphors-Nourish/dp/0764238256
Check out Aggressively Happy:
https://www.amazon.com/Aggressively-Happy-Realists-Believing-Goodness/dp/0764238248/?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_w=LfzV1&content-id=amzn1.sym.cf86ec3a-68a6-43e9-8115-04171136930a&pf_rd_p=cf86ec3a-68a6-43e9-8115-04171136930a&pf_rd_r=144-9553475-8087324&pd_rd_wg=LvZyp&pd_rd_r=6d7bd05c-79fe-4760-962e-083df08e9a43&ref_=aufs_ap_sc_dsk
Speaking with Joy podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/speaking-with-joy/id1310614879
Joy on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/joynessthebrave/?hl=en
https://www.facebook.com/p/Joy-Clarkson-100063508753020/
https://twitter.com/joynessthebrave?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
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About Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder?
Can I Laugh On Your Shoulder? Podcast is a weekly podcast where we have honest conversations about faith, business, life, and everything in between. Hosted by speaker and -
#384 How to Handle Conflict in a Healthy Way with Donna Jones
My guest this week is the amazing Donna Jones. Donna is a national speaker, church planter, pastor’s wife, and self-described bible explainer with a remarkable speaking portfolio spanning 26 states and 4 continents.
Donna is also the host of the weekly That's Just What I Needed podcast and the talented author behind Seek: A Woman's Guide to Meeting God, Taming Your Family Zoo, the Get Healthy Bible Study Series, and more.
In honor of her newest book, Healthy Conflict, Peaceful Life, she joins us today to share powerful strategies for handling conflicts with grace and truth. We talk about everything from navigating disagreements to the biblical foundations of forgiveness. I know there is something valuable in this conversation for everyone- get ready for a good one!
2:29 – Donna 101
Pastor’s wife and church planter National speaker, writer, and mom Passionate about conflict resolution Gym, coffee, and shoe lover 7:04 – Healthily Handling Conflict
Communicating thoughts, feelings, and opinions with grace and truth Donna’s unique perspective on conflict through ministry Don’t make the small things big and the big things small 18:31 – The Art of Listening & Disagreeing Gracefully
The conflict continuum Listening to understand Learning to disagree without being disagreeable 34:20 – Forgiveness
Forgiveness is a command, choice, and promise Starting with the “want to” Inviting Jesus into the pain It’s never too late 49:28 – Takeaways
Ordering Donna’s book Connecting with Donna Free online resources FEATURED QUOTES
“I would like to hope that this book serves the purpose to help people avoid things that will make them regret how they handled some conflict in their life.”
“If you have conflict with someone, it does not mean you are a bad person, they are a bad person, or your relationship is somehow defective or bad.”
“When we invite Jesus into those spaces, He doesn't shame us. He sympathizes because He leans towards us and He whispers, ‘I know. I felt it too. I get it. I understand. And I can help.’”
Learn more about Donna:
https://donnajones.org/
Get your copy of Healthy Conflict/Peaceful Life:
https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Conflict-Peaceful-Life-Communicating-ebook/dp/B0CDKY8YNJ
Donna on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/donnaajones/
Donna on Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/donnajonesspeak/
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#383 How to Find Strength in Surrender with Rose Booth
My guest this week is the incredible Rose Booth. With over 30 years of experience in technology and publishing, Rose is a dedicated mentor and counselor, passionate about ministry and teaching. She is also the co-host of the podcast, One Single Thought.
In December 2021, Rose's life took a turn when she became an amputee, offering her a new perspective on life. Her first book, Dancing in the Valley: Finding Life and Joy Amidst the Shadow of Death Nipping at My Heels, was released in December 2023.
I’m so excited to have her on the show today to share her inspiring story and talk about the power of surrender, as well as the growth that comes from navigating through dark valleys. Her story is such a powerful reminder that, even in our darkest moments, God is faithful and His plans for us are always good.
2:03 – Rose 101
Rose’s involvement with her church + journey as an author and podcast host Being born to parents who experienced 18 years of infertility Being instilled with a sense of independence from a young age 16:50 – Facing the Valley
Rose’s series of health complications and surgeries Grappling with questions of faith and purpose Rose’s pivotal moment of surrender 27:45 – Navigating Setbacks
The unexpected setbacks that kept Rose from healing Deciding to undergo amputation Yearning to be with Jesus 36:44 – Finding Strength in Surrender
Encouragement for those in the valley Growing in the darkest places God is working all things for good 46:13 – Takeaways + Rose’s Life Today
How Rose is doing physically today Publishing her book + future projects FEATURED QUOTES
“The worst time of my life, God used to make my dreams come true.”
“God will grow you more when you're in the darkness than He ever will in the light. It's one of the only things that grows in the dark and it's our faith.”
“If we think in the valley that we are where we're supposed to be because it's part of God's plan, then we know that this is ultimately going to work out for His good and His glory.”
Learn more about Rose:
https://www.rosebooth.net/
Order Rose’s book, Dancing in the Valley
https://www.amazon.com/Dancing-Valley-Finding-Amidst-Nipping/dp/1955051240/ref=sr_1_1?crid=X9EWQA7QFLWY&keywords=dancing%20in%20the%20valley%20rose%20booth&qid=1701392519&sprefix=%2Caps%2C151&sr=8-1
One Single Thought podcast:
https://www.rosebooth.net/podcast
Rose on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/rosieboo65/ -
#382 Living a Life with intention and purpose with Guest John R. Miles
This week, I am sitting down with the incredible John R. Miles, the driving force behind the wildly popular Passion Struck podcast and nationally recognized radio show. With a background as a former US Navy officer and a senior executive at a Fortune 50 company, John is celebrated as a transformative leader in intentional behavior change and personal mastery.
He’s an author, entrepreneur, and visionary in modern leadership and I’m so excited to have him on the show today to talk about his new book and the transformative power of purpose-driven living.
Stay tuned for a powerful conversation on overcoming adversity, fostering authentic connections, embracing gratitude in our daily lives, and much more. I was truly inspired by my conversation with John, and hope you enjoy it as much as I did!
2:38 – John 101
John’s unique career path John’s book + the “pinball life” 10:01 – Breaking Free from the Pinball Life
The self-discrepancy theory Intentionality as a muscle Life crafting + identifying goals Building a foundation through pillars of support 20:50 – Awakening to Purpose
John’s unexpected career shifts John’s wake-up call and journey towards a more meaningful path Aligning with your true calling 32:43 – Gratitude, Connection, and Purpose
Our innate desire for purpose The power of connection and service Being vessels for a greater purpose 40:42 – Hope in Hardship
The transformative power of pain and hardship Focusing on the small wins The path to rebuilding 48:15 – Takeaways
Connecting with John Matt Doherty’s story FEATURED QUOTES
“When we're acting like a pinball, we're completely unintentional, we are so distracted by the world around us, so caught up in the matrix, that we're not allowing ourselves to live with intention- to craft the life we want, to become a self-realized version of ourselves that God put us here to actuate in our life.”
“We can have suffering and be self-compassionate. We can experience trauma and be forgiving. But I think too many of us hold on to these things as either ors.”
“We all can rebound, but it takes intentional action to do so.”
Learn more about John:
https://johnrmiles.com/
Passion Struck Podcast:
https://passionstruck.com/passion-struck-podcast/
John’s new book, Passion Struck:
https://www.amazon.com/Passion-Struck-Powerful-Principles-Intentional/dp/B0C8G5R5FZ
John on social media:
https://www.instagram.com/john_r_miles/?hl=en
https://www.linkedin.com/in/milesjohn/
https://www.youtube.com/c/johnrmiles
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