Parenting Successful Teens Allie Irwin

Imposter syndrome is the FALSE belief that your normal human feelings of anxiety, doubts, etc are because there is something wrong with you.  Not true.  You're fine.  It's the belief that you're not already good enough that is the imposter.  Not you.
 
Tune in this week to learn the simple strategies to break the mental habit of feeling like you're not good enough so that you can feel more confident, quit proofreading your emails multiple times, start speaking up, and enjoying your many accomplishments.
 
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The truth of the matter is that, as a Mom, I worked myself out of a job. 
They will always need my love.  And I theirs.  But they don’t need me.  And there is a grief there that is true.  Over the loss of identity.
 
I don’t regret building my life around them.  If I had it to do over again, I wouldn’t change a thing.   But it's time to both acknowledge the impact I've had on my kids and to pick a new focus.


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I'm a big fan of maternal intuition (Mom's wisdom).  But when are you being guided by intuition and when is it just a brain fart?  An old story or unconscious bias?  Tune in this week to learn a quick test to sort out when you're getting information that is helpful vs. following an unconscious bias that will hold you back.
We spring clean our houses.  Empty our closets and sort out things that no longer fit.  So let's give our brain the same opportunity to start the spring by letting go of old grudges, stories about our past mistakes and habits that we are ready to change.  Click here to grab my Spring Clean Your Brain special.

Many parents want my help in getting their kids to tell them what's really going on in their lives.  They do this both because they want connection and they see it as a way to keep their kids safe.
Tune in this week to find out the secret to getting your kids to talk to you about things that really matter.

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Sometimes we get into situations where we feel a little over our heads.  Tune in this week to learn 2 strategies to make those situations easier to bear.

1.  Relentlessly being your own compassionate witness.
2.  Borrowing someone else's belief in you when your own faith in yourself is a little shaky.

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You'll leave the call with a clear idea of your next steps and feeling like it was time well spent. 

One of my clients, Emily, said "I thought it would be weird telling a stranger my problems but you were so easy to talk to.  I'm so glad we talked and I got the support I needed."

We live in a world that is more conducive to anxiety than play.  So play won’t necessarily feel good enough to entice you away from work until you rewire your brain for more joy.

Your brain will say "oh you can go do that when you send that email...finish the dishes..." (get your work done)

But your brain is a liar. She's a snake oil salesman. Your work will never be done. It will expand to fit your available time.

Tune in this week to find out why play doesn't feel more enticing and what to do about that.

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